Be Honest in Your Vetting

While this may initially be cute, and I did admittedly laugh about it, this is a good teaching opportunity. What’s wrong with the message she’s sending?

We stress vetting in the community. To be honest with ourselves and to be honest with our prospective D-type or s-type you’re vetting. This is manipulation in it’s purest form. A bait and switch. Per her message, her Dom expected one type of submissive and got another. In the real world, if this were to happen to me, she’d be released. No questions asked and no opportunity to do so given.

Be honest in your vetting, folks. Don’t be this person. Be clear in your needs, wants and styles of Dominance or submission. I promise the time that you invest into vetting will pay off when you find the right person.

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out /  Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )

Connecting to %s