Walk with me as we travel through the 30 Days of Dominance challenge.
30 Days of Domination: Day 1
Thoughts on Dominance, Labels and Style Does your Dominance – either what you practice or what you strive for – have a label? How do you view your style of…
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Thoughts on Submission and My Needs Today’s questions: Describe what you are looking for in a submissive and the techniques you might use to instill those characteristics in your submissive.…
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Thoughts on Dominance and Myself Today’s discussion questions: How do you know you are a Dominant or have the potential to be Dominant? How do you feel when you express…
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Thoughts on Switching Today’s discussion questions: Do you switch into a submissive role at any time? Are you a “switch” in BDSM terms? If not, have you ever thought about…
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Thoughts on D/s Relationships and My Experiences This wonderful lifestyle of ours is not new to me, I’ve fully been playing in this playground for fifteen years now. I’ve been…
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Origins of Dominance Today’s discussion questions: What do you feel are the roots of your Dominance? Do you think it has something to do with childhood, upbringing or parental example?…
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Thoughts on Punishment and the Mindfuck Today’s discussion questions: Do you inflict discipline or punishment as part of your Dominance? Why or why not? How do you feel about discipline…
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Thoughts on Punishment, Both Corporal and Mental Today’s discussion questions: Is spanking or corporal punishment part of your Dominance? Why or why not? How do you feel about spanking and/or…
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Thoughts on Rules, Structure and Negotiations Today’s discussion questions: Do you set and enforce structure, rules and limits as part of your Dominance? Why or why not? How do you…
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Thoughts on Kinks and Utilizations of BDSM Today’s discussion questions: Do you utilise any elements of BDSM in your Dominant style? How do you feel about BDSM? Is it core…
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Thoughts on Servitude and Service Today’s discussion questions: Do you expect servitude from your submissive/s? How do you define servitude and service? What does it mean to you? If you…
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Thoughts on Financial Submission Today’s discussion questions: Do you expect financial submission from submissive partner/s? If yes, how does it manifest itself? If no, is there a particular reason why?…
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Sex Today’s discussion topics: Is sexual availability, having your submissive partner/s sexually available to you at any time and in any manner you choose, part of your expectations as a…
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Thoughts on Religion and BDSM Today’s discussion questions: Does religion have any bearing on your Dominance or the way you expect your partner/s to submit? If not, are you familiar…
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Evolution of Dominance Today’s discussion questions: Has your Dominance evolved over time? If so, how has it evolved for you? What do you attribute this evolution (or lack of) to?…
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Matching Dominance to Submission Today’s discussion topics: Have you found that your Dominance has changed with different partners or relationships? If you’re involved with, or have been involved with, partners…
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A Discussion on Trust Today’s discussion questions: What does trust mean to you in the context of Dominance? How do you inspire trust in your submissive? Trust is a heavy…
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Communication I’ve learned a lot over the years. Some lessons were easily learned, some of them hard fought through trial and heartache. If my sub can’t express her opinion to…
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Socials and Networking Today’s discussions: How socially connected are you as a Dominant? Do you look for others to talk to about your Dominance either for support, learning, educating or…
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Changes in Dominance, Renegotiations and Kinks Today’s discussion: Has your Dominance increased or decreased over time? Have you ever had to renegotiate with your submissive due to a change in…
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Positions of Dominance Today’s discussion questions: Is there a physical position that makes you feel most Dominant? Is there a physical position you prefer your submissive to take in order…
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Exude Dominance Today’s discussion questions: Can you feel Dominant without a submissive partner? If so, how does your Dominance express itself? If not, how do you handle your need to…
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Questioning Your Dominance Today’s discussion questions: Is there anything about Dominance, either your own or what you see in others, which you question, dislike or are repelled by? Was there…
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The Emotions of Dominance Today’s discussion questions: What are the emotions that most directly let you access your Dominance? What feelings do they inspire? So you’re wanting access to my…
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Objects and Rituals of Dominance Today’s topic questions: Are there items, objects or rituals that represent or help you express your Dominance? If not, have you ever thought of adding…
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Qualities in a Prospective Submissive Today’s discussion questions: What are the qualities that you seek in a submissive partner? Are there qualities which you consider ‘must haves’ or ‘must not…
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Of Fantasies and Desires Today’s discussion topic: Do you have Dominant desires or fantasies that you have yet to explore? Do some of your desires confuse or frighten you? Do…
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Failures and Lessons Learned Today’s discussion questions: Has your Dominance ever failed you? Have you ever been criticized or received negative feedback for your Dominance? Have you ever regretted your…
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Pain and Humiliation Today’s discussion questions: Is pain or humiliation part of your Dominant expression? What is your relationship to pain and humiliation? Do you embrace it as part of…
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The Wolf Within Today’s discussion questions: Is your need to be Dominant being met? If not, or if your situation changed, do you think that you could continue in your…
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About Me
Hello, friends. You may call me Storm. I am a Daddy Dom with fifteen years in the lifestyle. These featured essays are designed to help and sometimes educate this dark Wonderland we’ve found ourselves in. There’s coffee on the table. Stay as long as you’d like.
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